Women of Reddit, what is your ‘trying to buy a car/item but the seller is sexist’ story?

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Mom answers phone: “Hello” Phone-sales-guy: “I’d like to talk to the man of the house” Mom: “So would I, but he’s been dead for 5 years now.” ed: Wow! Thanks to mom for the upvotes. (she’s been gone for 3 years now.)

wpurple

I went to a dealership to purchase a car after mine was totalled in an accident. My father in law drove me because my husband was at work. This guy kept ignoring me and talking to my father in law. Even after every question was answered, “I don’t know what kind she wants, ask her.” and “I have no idea what her budget is.” I walked off and he was still talking to my father in law, showing him a car. I walked up to another salesman and told him that guy apparently didn’t want to sell women cars and asked if he did. He was glad to help me and kept smirking at sexist guy while filling out the paperwork. I think there was some rivalry there because my sales guy was very accomdating and even threw in four brand new tires.

wylderpixie

We were having problems with our water heater and called someone to come take a look at it. My husband happened to take the dog for a walk just as the guy arrived. For some reason he decided he was going to need to cut a giant hole in our wall behind it. I didn’t know any better so I started helping his move stuff out of the way. Just as he’s getting his saw ready, husband walks in the door. Suddenly his entire story changes and actually all he needs to do is replace a small part. His attitude was completely different and magically he did not need to ruin our drywall. I was pretty frustrated.

albertagenuinedraft

When we were buying a house we told the lawyer to contact me. He kept contacting my husband instead and not even cc’ing me on emails. The problem was that my husband was working nights and sleeping during the day, so he wouldn’t return calls or check his emails until the business day was already over. It was so frustrating! We actually had a deal fall through because the seller’s broker did something shady and our lawyer’s response came too late and was incompetent. When we bought our home, we used a different lawyer.

dogsordiamonds

I wanted to buy a car that was present on the lot and not already in process with someone else (the kind of car where every dealership has 15+ of that car because it’s kind of their flagship) and while I was allowed to test drive it, it became clear to me that I was NOT going to be allowed to buy it. They told me they could sell me one, but it wasn’t heeeere yet. I was like can you sell me that one, pointing to one on the lot that was exactly what I was looking for, and they were like ohhhhh no, not thaaat one, that one is not the sport version (I’m looking at it and I see the sport tag and visible sport-tier changes to the exterior). So I’m like ok you’re weird, that’s fine, I have another car to drive, let me know when “the good one” comes in. I get a call, I go back to buy the car I asked for. The one that came in is the super luxury premium version. I say no. They’ve got another one, it’s got wheel locks and an upgraded sound system. But hey! It’s $500 off the $3000 difference in price! I’m a dumb woman, that must sound like a good deal to me, right??? I ask again if they’re willing to sell me any of the many cars that meet my criteria on the lot. They tell me that none of those cars exist. I left and bought a car from another dealership in a different town. That guy said yes, we have a car like that, it’s this one, would you like me to put your name on it? Ok I’ll have it detailed, come test drive it this weekend to be sure and I’ll have the paperwork ready. Bought a car in one day, after spending 2 weeks trying to buy one somewhere else.

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