Telling someone “I want you to be happy” often makes them smile. Telling someone “I want you to smile” never makes them happy.

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Because telling someone to smile isn’t for their benefit, it’s for yours.

Jak03e

It’s the difference between “I want you to *look* happy” and “I want you to *be* happy”.

MerylSquirrel

Cause it’s the most condescending thing. If someone isn’t smiling they aren’t in a mood to smile.

saintash

I’m wondering how often men are told to smile by strangers. I’m assuming that it happens but at a fraction of the frequency it does to women.

sunnygroovemother

Cause you’re trying to make the tail wag the dog

vanntasy