What are subtle red flags during the talking stage of a relationship that you shouldn’t ignore?

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If they don’t listen or care about anything you say.


Any differences of opinion on large issues like kids, religion, finances, sexual preferences, where to live, etc., that you mentally respond with, “They will change for me.” Especially when they say, “I won’t change for you.”


If they’re too clingy. If I just started talking to you, you shouldn’t treat me like your whole world


When they get mad if you don’t respond quickly enough or you don’t drop all your plans to hang out with them


* Making mean comments and trying to play it off as a joke * Trying to isolate you from friends/other relationships * Never admit they’re wrong * Possessiveness * Using ultimata/threats instead of compromising